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Domestic abuse is rarely a single event. It often starts with small acts of control, manipulation, or intimidation that escalate over time.

For many, these patterns go unnoticed until the situation becomes severe. Femicide—the killing of a woman because of her gender—is the tragic endpoint of such escalation, but early signs often exist and can be recognized.

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notthis is currently under development

We are building a discreet, privacy-first system designed to help recognize patterns of escalating control and abuse before they become severe.

The platform is being developed with survivor input, legal review, and ethical oversight to ensure safety, security, and dignity are built into its foundation.

Pilot partnerships and research collaborations are forming.

If you are an organization, municipality, researcher, or potential partner and would like to learn more, please get in touch.

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